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My Mother may only have at best 05:49 - Jul 14 with 12578 viewsBenters2

A few days or weeks left on this planet we call Earth.

The poor old girl beat Cancer 25 years ago.but sadly the C has come back ( its my biggest fear).

We are waiting now for the Hospice to take her in,she almost died last Sunday but the Paramedics managed to get her back.

I am dreading seeing her suffering today,as we all know you only get one Mum.

Life can be a right fkr at times.


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My Mother may only have at best on 05:52 - Jul 14 with 7955 viewsbrogansnose

My thoughts are with you mate. You know how to get in touch.





Go easy.
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My Mother may only have at best on 06:12 - Jul 14 with 7926 viewsThe_Romford_Blue

I’m sorry to hear that Benters. It’s such a cruel disease. Everyone knows someone that has/had it.

I’d love a cure for it to come out in the next few years. All the research paying off with a cure would truly be a miracle. Let’s hope so eh.

As you know, I’m usually awake like yourself during the nights if you ever want someone to chat to on PM.

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My Mother may only have at best on 06:12 - Jul 14 with 7926 viewstcblue

The next few days are where you pay her back for all the years and years of her bringing you up.

Thoughts are with you.
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My Mother may only have at best on 06:30 - Jul 14 with 7900 viewscobbler

So sorry to hear this hoping everything goes well for you and your mother.
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My Mother may only have at best on 06:44 - Jul 14 with 7891 viewsm14_blue

So sorry to hear that Benters, awful news.

I hope it all goes as painlessly as possible for both of you.

Remember the good times and be there to hold her hand.
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My Mother may only have at best on 07:18 - Jul 14 with 7818 viewsJohnny_Boy

Sorry to hear this buh.

Is she mobile enough for a small excursion somewhere pretty & picturesque? A quiet beach or some pretty gardens with lovely flowers?

This might not be possible in her condition - but surely one last hurrah before she enters the hospice. Are you able to borrow a wheelchair to at least push her around, have a rambling conversation, treat her to an ice cream, watch the world go by on a prom?
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My Mother may only have at best on 07:48 - Jul 14 with 7724 viewsKieran_Knows

Sorry to hear Benters, all the very best.

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My Mother may only have at best on 07:50 - Jul 14 with 7718 viewswitchdoctor

awwww...I know how hard it is to lose your Mum mate...😢
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My Mother may only have at best on 07:55 - Jul 14 with 7696 viewstractordownsouth

Sorry Benters, thoughts are with you and her

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My Mother may only have at best on 07:55 - Jul 14 with 7697 viewsWestover

Tough times I lost my dad on my 25th birthday, think of all the good times and try and take comfort from that.
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My Mother may only have at best on 07:57 - Jul 14 with 7673 viewsFtnfwest

All you can do is be there buh. Thoughts with you
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My Mother may only have at best on 08:12 - Jul 14 with 7611 viewsstickymockwell

Sorry to hear that. I hope her last days are pain free and you get to say all your farewells.

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My Mother may only have at best on 08:13 - Jul 14 with 7608 viewsRedWhiteAndBLUE

Sorry to hear that. Thinking of you.
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My Mother may only have at best on 08:17 - Jul 14 with 7598 viewsDebsyAngel

That is terrible.

Stay as strong as you can for your poor Mum

As others have said, try to do some pleasant things together and talk as much as you can to her. A gentle walk round one of our parks enjoying nature in this lovely weather maybe?

Thoughts are with you and take care xx
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My Mother may only have at best on 08:21 - Jul 14 with 7578 viewsBluebell

Difficult to know what to say Benters.

Hospices really are lovely places and your mum will get the best care there. At least she won't be on her own at home now with you worrying about her all the time.

It so hard for you to see her like that and know the inevitable is going to happen. I hope when the end comes it will be peaceful.

Thinking of you.
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My Mother may only have at best on 08:42 - Jul 14 with 7499 viewsGlasgowBlue

Sorry to hear that benters. Thinking of you mate.

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My Mother may only have at best on 08:49 - Jul 14 with 7480 viewsBluefish

Sorry to hear that. Cancer is truly evil, no one should have to experience it

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My Mother may only have at best on 08:54 - Jul 14 with 7495 viewsJoeSoap

Just let her know you’re there with her Benters, that will be the most important thing to her. Life can be cruel, but it’s the only one we have so remember the good times you’ve had with her.

“At first nothing will happen to us, and later on it will happen to us again.”

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My Mother may only have at best on 08:55 - Jul 14 with 7471 viewsblueblueburleymcgrew

So sorry to hear your news, hope you can find strength and comfort over the next few weeks and months from friends and family.
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My Mother may only have at best on 08:57 - Jul 14 with 7458 viewsBenters2

My Mother may only have at best on 08:54 - Jul 14 by JoeSoap

Just let her know you’re there with her Benters, that will be the most important thing to her. Life can be cruel, but it’s the only one we have so remember the good times you’ve had with her.


Thanks Joe x
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My Mother may only have at best on 09:00 - Jul 14 with 7446 viewsclive_baker

Sorry to hear you’re going through that. I echo the sentiments of others, remember the great times you’ve had and savour these times you still have together. Hold her hand, tell her how loved she is. Stay strong fella.

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My Mother may only have at best on 09:15 - Jul 14 with 7370 viewsGuthrum

Sorry to hear that, Benters. Hope she is as comfortable as possible. Look after yourself as well.

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My Mother may only have at best on 09:29 - Jul 14 with 7320 viewsStochesStotasBlewe

Sorry to hear about your mum mate. Take care.

We have no village green, or a shop. It's very, very quiet. I can walk to the pub.

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My Mother may only have at best on 09:43 - Jul 14 with 7281 viewsirishtim

Sorry to hear. Hope she is not suffering too much. Lost my Dad to this cruel disease. He was 69. Thinking of you and your family at this difficult time.
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