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Reply | Football is such a strange industry
at 14:03 17 Apr 2024
Shocker of an appointment. Rotherham may struggle to yo yo back up next year, need an overhaul. Would you want Evans to do that? Short signed and wiuldnbe better keeping Leam IMO |
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Reply | The hardest thing I have ever had to write
at 08:59 17 Apr 2024
Just to say thanks again for all the additional replies.
I've got an assemrnt therapy session booked in and will go from there.
Have also been looking at some of the various links you have all kindly signposted or the equivalent services local to me.
TWTD is a great place. You're all terrific |
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Reply | The hardest thing I have ever had to write
at 16:29 15 Apr 2024
Thank you all for the replies here and those who have DMd me, I really appreciate it. Lots to think about for me and its been reassuring having some of you share your own experiences too.
I need to think about next steps and where i go from here .
As I said, this board never ceases to amaze me |
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Thread | The hardest thing I have ever had to write
at 13:02 15 Apr 2024
Help
It's that simple, sign posting recommendations etc.
I have seen a few posts such as this over the years and the TWTD community has never failed to amaze me with its advise, compassion and understanding.
I have recently found myself struggling mentally, over thinking, worrying too much about all sorts, work, home life, life in general, pretty much everything. Feels like I'm spiralling a bit and can't pull out.
It's not depression, I have experienced depression before and this is different but if i don't fix it soon it may turn into that as well.
I am questioning almost everything, have lost all sense of self confidence and the ability to relax, switch off be in the moment. Its like whatever I'm doing there is an out of body me above whispering in my ear providing not very helpful analysis and critique of everything I do.
I find myself feeling pretty worthless and not deserving of the friendships or relationships that I have. I could and probably should talk to friends but the one friend that I would have reached out to (as a middle aged man I find my circle now greatly diminished) sadly passed away suddenly at the end of last year, I miss them greatly and don't think I have fully processed that yet. Grief council ing is probably in order there but this goes much beyond that.
I am of course looking at therapy, I have had therapy before and it helped a bit but clearly not as much as I thought.
There are some unresolved issues resulting from childhood and the hold that the Mike Hunt of an old man seems to still have over me feels relentless I wonder if it's him in my ear the result of his influence is that confidence does not come easy to me and is easily knocked.
I feel like a rabbit in tbe headlights, frozen through fear of getting it wrong. It being everything.
I'm so clouded I am struggling to think straight and have a nagging feeling my life is about to implode.
I feel like an idiot even writing all of this and though I know I'm not, it doesn't change that feeling of failure in doing so.
Feeling pretty inept and rubbish for not being able to help myself, again I know I shouldn't but I do.
Any advise, input suggestions or recommendations from anyone who has been through similar is very welcome below or in private.
Thanks
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Reply | Mallorca Derby Meet?
at 09:20 6 Apr 2024
We're going to be based in Valledemosaa so Dea is on the list plus a day in Palma, beyond that free and easy and hoping for the weather so will try and get up there |
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Reply | Mallorca Derby Meet?
at 06:36 6 Apr 2024
Flying out today, welcome any suggestions on where to visit |
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Reply | Ali Al Hamadi
at 15:13 5 Apr 2024
Al-Hama-di, Di, Di
Plays for Ipswich scores for free
Hama- Di, Di, Di
He hates Norwich just like me.
With his left, with his right, yes the boy is dynamite .
We will dance every night as he puts us out of sight
To the tune of Agaadoo for those that are unsure |
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Reply | Lucky Ipswich
at 12:02 3 Apr 2024
Anyone want to post this on Foxtes talk and the Leeds forum, bet it will get some serious bites |
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Reply | Milton Keynes meet for the derby
at 23:05 2 Apr 2024
Would be cracking to arrange some other meet ups when we're on the tele.
An ITFC Beds, bucks and Northants supporters club perhaps. I so rarely get to FPR and away tickets are gone before they get to general sale, understandably and not a complaint, its great to see us take such big followings but would have loved to been in that North Stand at 90 plus 7 yesterday |
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Reply | Milton Keynes meet for the derby
at 22:18 2 Apr 2024
I'm Northampton based and other time I'd be up for this but I'm away this weekend.
Should there be Derby matches next year I'd be in though |
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Reply | How Many Fecking Points?!
at 20:29 2 Apr 2024
I still think its 100 or more for second.
It's insane, need Leics to carry on capitulating but tha win yesterday probably gives them some more more momentum. |
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Thread | Morgan Whittaker
at 09:44 2 Apr 2024
One we might go back in for (dividend dependent) if Plymouth go down?
Colin being linked as a 'firefighter', he's had little impact where he has pitched up recently |
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Reply | Guthrum's Estimated Final Table
at 08:32 2 Apr 2024
Don't think it will happen but seems worth posting anyway.
Hope scum haven't gifted them some momentum. |
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